There are, arguably, four types of people when it comes to Valentine’s Day.
One, the couples who celebrate this holiday. They’re the ones who post photos of flowers or chocolates from their significant other, or a photo of the both of them. They might have a romantic meal, or give a card to one another. They at least try.
You know what I mean.
Next are the rest of the couples, who don’t really do anything for the holiday. Maybe they have been together too long to care anymore, or they have mutually decided that ‘Valentine’s Day is stupid’ and refuse to participate.
There are also those who mourn or miss past relationships on this day, reminiscing on what could have been even if the relationship ended for good reason and often claiming that they hate this holiday.
Can’t say I blame them…
Lastly, there are those who have never celebrated what is known as Valentine’s Day because they have never had a significant other to celebrate it with. Yeah.
Maybe there are more than four, in fact I’m sure there will be people who don’t fall into these groups. But I’m sure you get what I am trying to do here, bear with me.
I count myself in the last category.
But unlike a majority of people who find themselves as chronically single as me, I don’t dislike Valentine’s Day. As I have grown in my faith throughout the years, I have found that I can often see God and His love in ordinary, every day things.
And yes…even in Valentine’s Day.
February 14th begs the question: what is love?
Love is not measured by boxes of chocolate, cards or bouquets of flowers. (That’s not to say that there is anything wrong with buying your girlfriend flowers, those couple dollars spent really will make her day. But still.)
It’s so much more than those little things.
Love is only one thing, one word, one name…. (drumroll please!)
Here’s the deal:
You have been loved by Christ from day one, loved so much that he would willingly suffer and die so that you and I can have life.
He loves you when you are happy. He loves you when you are sad.
He loves you on those days when you look in the mirror and hate what you see.
He loves you on the days you feel beautiful.
He loved you all those times that you didn’t measure up to the world, and all those times you succeeded too.
Every promise that the Bible gives us, every beautiful thing we have been given, and through every heartache and every blessing we are constantly reminded of the enduring love that our Savior has for us.
God’s love is often referred to as agape, which translated from Greek is most closely ‘unconditional love’. We can try to re create this love in our human relationships, but ultimately God is the only one who can truly show us this unconditional, agape love. And despite the fact that we don’t deserve it, He gives it without wavering.
It’s easy to forget all this, I know. No matter how you feel about today’s holiday, there is a love that tops everything we could possibly experience here on earth. I want to remind you to consider this love that you are so freely given.
So, beloved child of God, be loved today – and every day. You are worthy. Happy Valentine’s Day!
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8